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What's it like being in a relationship with someone with avoidant attachment?
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I have a relationship of over 20 years, I have secure attachment style and he an avoidant. The first years it was wonderful because it looks like he was doing everything to make me happy and never talking about what bothered him (all tose years). Recent years were tough for me (I had a traumatic life changing event). I had asked him to go to therapy and he has opened to talk about his past trauma (neglect and abandonment as a child). His therapist tells him he’s ok. It is very frustrating to me to not been able to communicate my needs. In the past I held my own but as I needed emotional support, he doesn’t know how and tells me to go to a therapist.
